The power of words: Unlocking the energy of communication with your gundogOn the surface it is easy to see the power of words in the traditional way, for example if I say something that is traditionally deemed to be ‘nasty’ or ‘rude then it is obvious that I am likely to cause hurt or upset to the recipient.However, there are many layers to the power of words, and to their effects on both you and your gundog and the more wisely you can learn to and choose to use them the greater the effect will be felt in your life.The vibrational energy of wordsIt’s easy to dismiss words as simple tools of communication, but science and spirituality alike suggest they hold far more power. Words vibrate at different frequencies, and these frequencies can carry positive or negative energy, they carry vibrations, intentions, and energies that ripple and directly impact those around us, including our gundogs. While our gundogs might not fully comprehend the exact words we speak, they are acutely attuned to vibrational energy and therefore the emotions behind those words.Think about a time when you were frustrated or upset. Even if you were trying to hide it, did your gundog seem uneasy or hesitant around you? This is a prime example of how the energy behind your words transcends the literal meaning. Conversely, when you speak with joy, gratitude, or love, your gundog picks up on that positivity, creating a sense of safety and connection.When did you last thank your gundog?Gratitude is a powerful form of positive energy, yet how often do we pause to truly thank our gundogs? Not just saying the words “thank you,” but feeling it with our hearts and sharing that energy outwards so our gundogs can feel the vibrations of positivity and love. Gundogs enrich our lives in countless ways: they offer unconditional love, loyalty, and even practical help. However, in the busyness of life, it’s easy to overlook the little things they do for us.For example, when your gundog moves out of your way as you walk past, do you say “thank you” with genuine appreciation? Or do you grumble under your breath, “Finally!” because they weren’t quick enough and you are rushing around trying to complete various tasks? These seemingly minor interactions accumulate and shape the energy of your relationship. Taking a moment to express heartfelt gratitude, whether for a good recall, patiently waiting for you, or simply being by your side, can strengthen your bond and foster mutual respect.A simple exercise:The next time your gundog does something helpful or considerate, pause and genuinely thank them. Close your eyes if it helps, and connect to a feeling of gratitude in your heart. Say “thank you” with sincerity, and observe how your gundog responds. Often, you’ll notice a softening in their body language or an increase in attentiveness, as if they understand and appreciate your recognition.This practice not only benefits your gundog but also transforms your mindset, helping you focus on the positives in your gundog’s behaviour and your relationship.The negative vibrations of wordsWords can be harmful too. While addressing gundog behaviour challenges, it’s common for owners to use phrases like, “They never listen,” or “They’re hopeless at that.” While such comments may stem from frustration or even humour whilst trying to lighten a difficult topic of conversation, they carry negative vibrations. Over time, this can create a barrier to openness,&nbsp; communication and trust.In my experience as a trainer, I often meet clients on either end of the spectrum. Some are overly forgiving and overlook behaviours that need addressing, while others unintentionally carry an overly critical view which affects tone. Both approaches impact the gundog’s emotional state.If your words consistently express disappointment, frustration, or criticism, your gundog may internalise that energy. They might become more anxious, withdrawn, or disengaged, making training and bonding more difficult. On the other hand, focusing on their strengths and using encouraging language can uplift their confidence and foster a deeper connection.Turn the script aroundIf you find yourself in a cycle of negative talk, try reframing your words. Instead of saying, “They always run off,” acknowledge moments of success, no matter how small. For instance, “Wow, you chose to stay with me for a second longer today, good job!” Small changes in language can have profound effects on your gundog’s perception of their own behaviour and your relationship.Here’s a practical example: If your gundog struggles with recall and frequently chases after prey, focus on the moments they make a good choice, even if it’s fleeting. Celebrate these wins verbally: “Well done for turning back!” This positive reinforcement, combined with a genuine energetic shift in your words, can help transform your gundog’s confidence and behaviour over time.Words as a tool for confidence and engagementGundogs thrive on feeling understood and appreciated. When we infuse our words with positivity, encouragement, and gratitude, we create an environment where our gundogs feel safe to explore, learn, and engage. This is particularly important for gundogs with confidence issues or a history of stress.Consider a gundog who hesitates to try new activities. Your tone and choice of words can either encourage them or reinforce their fears. A cheerful, “You’ve got this!” paired with patient guidance can inspire them to step out of their comfort zone. Conversely, a frustrated “Why can’t you just do it?” can shut them down further.Practical tip: Positive words in trainingIncorporate positive affirmations but not just into your training sessions. Use phrases like:<ul><li>“You’re doing so well!”</li><li>“Good choice!”</li><li>“I’m proud of you!”</li></ul>in every day life for the small good decisions they make or the little triumphs they have here and there dealing with what goes on each day.Say these words with heartfelt energy and observe how your gundog’s behaviour, enthusiasm and energy shifts.Your energy shapes your gundog’s realityUltimately, the energy behind your words is what matters most. Gundogs are incredible mirrors of our emotions and vibrations, reflecting back what we project. If you bring positivity, patience, and gratitude into your communication, your gundog will respond with greater engagement, trust, and joy.If you’re struggling with your gundog’s behaviour, take a step back and evaluate how you speak to and about them. Are you unintentionally focusing on their shortcomings? Are your words carrying frustration or disappointment? Even a “well done” can carry the vibrations of disappointment we are trying to cover. Shifting to a more positive mindset and thus a more positive and supportive language can be key in unlocking potential.A challenge for youAs you go about your day, be mindful of the words you use with your gundog. Each time you speak to them, ask yourself:<ul><li>What energy am I bringing to this interaction?</li><li>Am I lifting them up or unintentionally bringing something else to this interaction?</li><li>Have I expressed genuine gratitude today?</li></ul>This small but powerful shift can create a ripple effect, improving not just your gundog’s behaviour but also the strength of your bond.Final thoughtsWords hold immense power. When used mindfully, they become a bridge of connection and understanding between you and your gundog. By focusing on the positive vibrations of gratitude, encouragement, and patience, you can transform your relationship and help your gundog thrive emotionally and behaviourally.So, the next time you speak to your gundog, remember: it’s not just what you say, but how you say it. Choose words that inspire trust, joy, and confidence, and watch the magic of your bond unfold. Whilst you are becoming mindful of how you speak, it is also highly beneficial if you can also look at the words you use to describe yourself in training and life with your gundog, be kind to yourself, you are doing your best!

The power of words and your gundog: Unlocking the energy of communication with your gundog

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